I was diagnosed with Lymphoma March 2008. After 7 cycles of chemotherapies, the doctor suggested me to do a peripheral blood stem cell transplant (PBSCT) to increase the chances of a permanent cure. I use this blog to account for some of my experiences and my life after the transplant
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Day +177 : UK's sudden star Susan Boyle
Come Back to Susan Boyle, I had view her performance 4 times. Currently it is the most popular YouTube video of her performance, had been view more than 40 million times. She announced that she is about to appear on Oprah Winfrey's talk show, and report of recording deals are already circulating.
Susan Boyle, the frumpy, unemployed 47 year old church lady from the tiny Scottish village of Blackburn, lives alone with her cat and grew up singing in the church choir. She decided to enter a talent contest to honour the memory of her dead mother who always encouraged her to pursue her singing talent. Mom was right, after wowing judges on the UK tv show " Britain's Got Talent" with her rendition of " I Dreamed a Dream", Susan Boyle became a sensation of historic proportions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY&feature=related
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Day +176 : SUSAN BOYLE
Photo : Susan Boyle
Teck Ann email us about this 48 years old woman SUSAN BOYLE sings "I DREAMED A DREAM" in a UK talent show . If you are tired of Jay Chou, Michael Jackson or Madonna, then try Susan Boyle. Frankly, I was impressed by her voice and courage. More than 10 million visitors viewed the video clip.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY&feature=related
Day + 176 : zanlong.blohspot.com
Photo 1 : SMJK Triang, my secondary school from 1983 to 1988
I am fine.
Today, I visited a blog by Soh Zan Long, my secondary school 's senior. The blog " acclaim Life " (为生命喝采). Sin Chew highlighted this blog.
One of his most recent article in the blog.
早上,办理好激励讲座后,到食堂喝茶。听到两位女老师在讨论着。我依稀听到这么一句:“当孩子讲话的时候,要听听他们讲什么。”“看看他们怎么想。”很感动我的一句话。其实,我一直都明白,我们需要聆听孩子的心声。年代不一样了,做父母的应该仔细聆听孩子说的话、听听他们的心声,不要一味地责备孩子。孩子生在新的年代里,环境不一样了,想法也和父母不同了。父母亲其实需要改变自己来顺应环境的改变,接受新的知识、理论、环境。如果不稍微做改变,就好像我谈到刘德华、郭富城啊,学生会取笑我:“老师落伍了!跟不上潮流。”所以,父母亲需要适应世界潮流、环境改变。了解孩子,给他们机会表达自己的思想。不要为他们贴上标签,他们是坏孩子。听听他们的心声吧!教师也应该这样。不要把自己的价值观强加在学生的身上。我听说过一位烤蛇肉这么的看法:“这个孩子的父母都不在了,他今天能够来学校上学已经是很好的了,衣服放出来外面,劝告他一下咯,好好跟他谈啦,怎么还要搞到要开除他。。。。。。”真的是对啊!老师不了解学生的心声,他们的心事没有人知道,只有继续这样下去,最后被开除啦。。。。。。今天,一位家长就是这么怪校方开除他的孩子。。。。。今天,我就听到一个老师对我发牢骚:“看!这个学生,衣服就是不要塞进裤子里。。。。”其实,很想问:“你有听听他的心声吗?”其实,校长也试过责备一位学生。可是,后来那位学生透露出心声,校长也感动着,不再责备他,反而安慰他。那位学生,眼泪流得更多。。。。。校长叫我继续辅导他。我见了他,他从头说起,眼泪也一直流着。。。。。。是从来没有人关心他、安慰他、帮助他。可是,校长的关心、我的帮助,他深受感动、哭了。。。。。就是这样,他得救了。所以, 爸爸妈妈、老师们,听听你的孩子你的学生的话,看他们想说些什么。不要太快下定论:“他们是坏的。”你的爱心,可以拯救一个灵魂。
Photo 2 : soh zan long
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Day + 175 : Examination Time
Xin Yi currently study Primary 2 at Ladang Harcroft , she was the librarian in Primary 1. Rightnow, she is a deputy monitor. She told me she like to be librarian more.
Ladang Harcroft was shifted from Perak to Puchong. IOI's boss Tan Sri Lee Shen Chin donated the land and build the school as well. We have to thanks him for giving our children a place to study, there is seroiusly shortage of chinese primary school at Puchong. Initially Xin Yi was given a place at Chin Wu , PJ, travelling time is about 45 minute. If the traffic is heavy, it will need > 1 hours
The mid term exam time is coming, school gave a list of exam topic, request parent to do revision with kid. During our time, we don't have such communication. Now, the school able to update more information to parents .
Monday, April 27, 2009
Day + 174 : ASW 2020 Sold out
ASW 2020 is opened for public today, the respond is too good. My queue is 260. The staff advise me to come back after lunch time. By then, I was advised the fund sold out. The quota is full. With the yearly return of 6% to 8%, ASW 2020 is selling like hot cake. Although this is unit trust, the capital value of RM1.00 remain unchanged. You buy RM1.00/unit and selling also RM1.00/ unit.
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Day +172 : EPF
Yesterday, I asked Boon Tiam drove me to EPF at Jalan Gasing at PJ to submit the form for medical withdrawal. The process is faster than I expected. Within half an hours we settled the application. The payment will be bank in directly into applicant 's account within 3 weeks times. We went for tea break at the famous Ipoh chicken rice at Jalan Gasing. We ordered steam kampug chicken, meal ball, oil rice ad grout beans. Usually Boon Tiam don't finish his portion, but this time I saw him clean the the whole plate. He said the food taste good and good customer service as well.
Last year, I did the same EPF application , but the bill was submitted later, that was during the bone marrow transplant. As I must avoid crowded area at least 3 months after the transplant to minimise the infections, Teck Ann help me submit the bill. EPF' staff is helpful.
Friday, April 24, 2009
Day +171 : Improve
Photo 1 : Jin Hao at EDULAND ( 4 years old)
Photo 2 : Jin Hao refused to stay at class without my wife sister. This situation last for one month.
Photo 5 : Celebrated my birthday on 8 Jan 08
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Day + 170 : Buying ASW 2020
My wife bought RM2000 of Amanh Saham Wawasan 2020 ( ASW 2020) many years ago, and the yearly dividend is better the fixed deposit interest. I went to Maybank Bdr Puteri, asked for ASM , was told the allocation for Non bumiputra sold out after 2 days launched. This indicate people still have more cash in hand. The next fund is ASW 2020 due to open on 27 April. If you have FD, you may want to consider switching to this fund.
Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 (ASW 2020)
Dividend Rate Since year 1999
Year -Dividend
2008 - 7.00
2007 - 8.00
2006 - 6.80
2005 - 7.10
2004 - 7.00
2003 - 6.60
2002 - 7.25
2001 - 7.25
2000 - 8.80
1999 - 10.20
Further Info :
Permodalan Nasional Berhad (PNB) will offer an additional Malaysia (3.33 billion units of Amanah SahamASM) from 21 April 2009 (Tuesday) and two billion units of Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 (ASW 2020) from April 27 (Monday).The maximum allowed per investor is 20,000 units :- Amanah Sahama Malaysia (ASM), the limit is applicable throughout the offer period beginning April 21, 2009 until July 20, 2009.- Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 (ASW 2020), the limit is applicable throughout the offer period beginning April 27, 2009 up to to May 6, 2009. After the offer period, there is no limit provided that all the new units not yet fully subscribed.Amanah Saham Malaysia (ASM) is open for all Malaysian, latest information reported that for the additional 3.33 billion units of Amanah Saham Malaysia (ASM), 1.665 billion units (50 %) were offered to Bumiputeraa, 999 million units (30%) to the Chinese, 499.5 million units for Indians (15%) and the balance of 166.5 million units (5 %) for other Malaysians.Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 (ASW 2020) has a quota of 51% bumiputra and 49% non bumiputra.You can buy the Amanah Saham Malaysia and Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 from PNB offices and the 1,500 agents which are Maybank, RHB Bank, CIMB Bank and Pos Malaysia.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Day + 167 : Happy birthday, Sean Loo !
Last Night, We celebrated Fong Ming's son, Sean Loo 9 years old's birthday. Hui Ling bought a Tiramisu cake , the taste is good, we eat the whole the cake
Sean Loo ( Loo Xin Hao) study at Yak Chee, Primary three. Best Record, top student. worst record, hide the unfinished homework under the bed ( Fong Ming almost get stroke when he found out the kid is so creative in hiding school works).
Photo : Birthday's boy, Sean Loo
Photo : Sean Loo, Teng Teng, Xin Yi and Jin Hao
Photo : Sean Loo with sister Teng Teng
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Day +166 : My Niece Eng Xin
Yesterday, My eldest sister, Chew Kian have back to Singapore. She stayed few nights in my house. My sister took a week leave for this trip. She want to bring her daughter to visit me. My niece Eng Xin, 9 months , weigh 10 kg. My son Jin Hao, 5 years old, 13kg. You can imagine Eng Xin is a little jumbo. She can finished a bowl of porridge within few minutes. Jin Hao sure lose to her in term of eating speed.
My sister suppose visited us during CNY, but she postponed the trip. My daugther Xin Yi was very eagerly to meet her cousin, keep on asking me when Eng Xin will come. Eng Xin enjoy playing with Xin Yi.
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Day +165 : Zoo Visit
Jin Hao's school organised a trip to Sunway Mini Zoo on 16 April. Jin Hao and Teng Teng ( Fong Ming 's princess) took part in this trip. They are particular excited when school organised such trip. I asked Jin Hao, what he saw in the zoo ? Answer : Snake. He still learning how to decsribe things he see.
The school gave the Bahasa spelling (Cacing, Cicak, Cabut), the score is zero. He is not keen in study, he tends to miss the school homework. When asked to do homework, he say will do it tomorrow
Photo 1 : Teng Teng and Jin Hao
Friday, April 17, 2009
Day +164 : Visit by Eng Sim
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
DAY + 162 : follow up
the blood count on 14 April 09 :
Haemoglobin : 10.3 ( normal 13 to 18)
platelet: 170 ( normal 150 - 400)
Total WBC : 4.5 ( normal 4 to 11)
The blood count show platelet and total WBC is normal, the Haemoglobin is still low, Dr Alan said eat well and more will help to boost up this red blood cell. Dr Alan said if the blood count is normal, we can skip the bone marrow test on the 180 days.
Teck Ann drove me back after the follow up.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Day +159 : Happy Birthday Jin Hao
Today is my son, Jin Hao birthday. He is 5 years old. We bought a cake for him to celebrate together with his classmate at Citrawarna. We asked him to choose the type of cake he like, he selected an ULTRAMAN logo on his cake. He know this logo thanks to TV cartoon. I know the moment he enjoy the most is blowing the candle and cutting the cake.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Day +158 : Visit
My eldest sister from Singapore is bringing her baby to visit me today. Look forward to see my niece. My sister got her first baby at the age of 40, so it is a precise gift. I strongly believe a family with children is better bond.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Day + 155 : Condolences
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Day + 155 : Cheng Yoong's father
Cheng Yoong, let us know if you need any assistance.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Day +154 : Still weak
last week , Teck Ann accompanied me for the follow up. The lung is clear. The next follow up will be in two weeks times. Over the last 5 months, the follow up was on weekly basic.
My condition is improving, I feel better now.